Ms. Pamela W. Vetrano

WATERBURY - With profound sadness and broken hearts, the family of Pamela W. (Feldman) Vetrano, age 69, of Waterbury, share the news of her peaceful passing surrounded by the love and comfort of her family on Wednesday, June 18, 2025, at Vitas Inpatient Unit of St. Mary’s Hospital after a lengthy illness. She was the widow of Joseph M. Vetrano.

Pamela was born in Hollywood, Florida on April 13, 1956, the daughter of the late Richard and Hope Feldman. She spent much of her life in the Bronx, New York, where she dedicated herself to her family as a devoted homemaker. In 2014, she relocated to Waterbury, Connecticut, to be closer to her family. She faced life's challenges with remarkable courage and resilience. She had a profound love for music, enjoying all genres, which brought joy to her life and those around her. She loved nothing more than spending time with her family, especially her grandchildren. Pamela’s legacy of love, strength, and resilience will forever endure in the hearts of those who knew and loved her. May she rest in peace, surrounded by the music she adored and the family that cherished her.

Left to honor and cherish her memories are her children, Lauren Vetrano of New York and Vincent Vetrano and his wife Joanna of Waterbury, her grandchildren, Violet, Layla, Katelyn, Kiara, Jaylani, Angelina, Michael, Gabriel, Emmy and JJ, her sister Karen Feldman, her nieces Gina and Nicole, her nephew Frankie, her sisters-in-law Carol and Diane, her brothers-in-law Mike and Ralph, her parents-in-law Filomena and Vincent, and her son’s sister-in-law Melissa. Besides her loving husband Joseph and her parents, she is also predeceased by her son, Michael J. Vetrano. She also leaves many cousins and other extended family members and friends.

Funeral services for Ms. Vetrano will be held privately at the convenience of her family. Casey’s Eastside Memorial Funeral Home and Cremation Care, 1987 East Main Street, Waterbury has been honored to assist her family during this difficult time. Loving kindness is always welcome, and it only takes a moment to offer a message of condolence or words of comfort or share a memory of someone important to you with your family and friends. Please visit the funeral home’s tribute page at www.caseyfunerals.com to do so.